Comments on: Intimidate this, Bitch.

By: A Small Glimpse of My Experience with Shoq | Who Is Shoq?

A Small Glimpse of My Experience with Shoq | Who Is Shoq? — Sun, 10 Mar 2013 04:58:09 +0000

[...] Shoq’s uncontrolled rage about my Michael Vick tweet left me stunned and horrified. I immediately started shaking and crying. I told Shoq that I had to go, and hung up the phone. Shortly thereafter, he called me and apologized for screaming at me. I accepted his apology and asked that he never yell at me like that again. Shoq promised me he wouldn’t. He didn’t keep that promise for long. [...]

By: Chris

Chris — Wed, 28 Nov 2012 01:29:41 +0000

Craaaazzzzzy! wow…. My deepest sympathy goes out to you in dealing with a psycho like this. :(

By: Every single has a flip side

Every single has a flip side — Wed, 19 Sep 2012 19:10:02 +0000

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By: crimson&clover

crimson&clover — Sun, 09 Sep 2012 09:39:12 +0000

Vdaze- you’re amazing! You had balls to put a man on blast for his wrongdoings and I praise you for it! I wish more people were outed because of their actions and this guy is classic manipulative creep! I’ve dealt with his kind in the past and can totally relate. I was put through abuse and manipulation and can now recognize it and see it clearly. He knows how to turn the tables on you instead of manning up and taking responsibility for his actions. He victimizes himself and doesn’t think of you at all, as bad as it sounds he is only thinking of saving his own ass now and will do anything to gain sympathy.Thank you for letting women know about this guy! I wish more women got together and let others know which ones are bad apples. You are protecting not only yourself but others as well, just remember that! (Also I laughed at the “Nice sock puppet Violet, ya freak.” comment! ) Anyone can see it’s this guy who you are describing has come and posted under Violet to try & post anything against what you say to try & discredit or make you look bad. He really needs help.

By: rebeccay

rebeccay — Sat, 08 Sep 2012 16:50:31 +0000

So glad you realized what he has been doing to you and others. We shouldn’t hate him, I suppose, cuz he needs help badly. Glad you’re on the mend. I almost lost my soul to abuse …both physical and mental from an ex. My step dad & bio dad were pretty bad, too. But,, I’ve left it all behind …took my power back. And am not letting any of it cause me to hate. Hate only hurts onself. As someone said, hate is like holding a hot coal and hoping the other person gets burned. Good luck.

By: Denise A Romano

Denise A Romano — Sat, 08 Sep 2012 01:05:29 +0000

Just want to say to Violet W that workplaces in the US (not sure if Vdaze is in the US or not) DO have a legal responsibility to protect people from people who are abusing and threatening them. That is because abusers have often taken out their abuse on the targets of their abuse at workplaces and have often harmed others who were just innocent bystanders.

Abuse is real, and it is extremely important for those who experience it to speak out – even in their workplaces for their own and others’ protection.

By: vdaze

vdaze — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 23:36:57 +0000

I didn’t leave my spouse *for* this person. I left my spouse because I left my spouse.

By: Witchy

Witchy — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 23:33:50 +0000

Jesus’ General should know know about virtual relationships given that he almost left his spouse, just as you did.

Personally, if you left your spouse for this person, that says a lot about you.

By: drydoc

drydoc — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 21:45:14 +0000

I can’t believe he’s now telling you, via twitter, to call or Skype him to ‘end it.’

Mentioning his mom is manipulative and desperate. (Is this the guilt part or the shame part?)

I know it goes without saying, but don’t call, don’t Skype, don’t put yourself through more of this.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 20:48:44 +0000

I think you should get Violet W’s IP address. These men are sickening. I can’t believe this man is more than 20 years my senior and he is doing this. He obviously has issues. (I know, I know, we all do! But HIS ISSUES result in harassment, threats and intimidation. ) But really, get a restraining order, get his IP address, and get him to shut the f- up about it on Twitter once you’re done . (You can get his IP address from ANY email that he sent you. ) I don’t know what state you live in, but where I am at, it’s a pretty quick process for at least the initial protective order. If he violates it (by contacting you through a third party, a sock puppet, etc) he will be placed under arrest. If he’s NOT harassing you, this shouldn’t MATTER to him that he cannot tweet to or about you.